the game called love

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This article was not meant to give a bad image to guys. Hence, it’s meant for the reality to afloat above else in the life of dumped girls and girls who will soon fall inlove. No offense.

There are two kinds of girls and two kinds of guys, the loyal girls and boys, and the playful girls and boys, meaning that this article is not meant for all. It has its own specifications and may not be applicable to a certain reader. The content of this article does not mean that all guys are like that. But some are.

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At most times, it always makes me wonder.. Why do girls always go after boys if they were already dumped? They go straight to their rooms and cry their hearts out using up all the tissue there could ever be in their house, and still, they’re not yet done crying. They lose focus in almost everything they do. Some don’t have the appetite to eat while some keeps on eating and eating food just to escape the depression that they feel. Can’t they just accept the mere fact that they’re not made for each other? And that she’s better off without him anyway. Why? Because staying in a relationship that one of you is not committed to, is just like putting lots and lots of candies in your mouth without the plan of eating it. Because the longer it stays there, the more chance it will rot out your teeth which are a part of your smile, just like the sorrow that could eat one of you up inside. Let them go if they’re not happy. But before you go your separate ways, have a sincere talk. Ask them what the reason is. Don’t ever get furious. Stay calm and talk things out between the two of you. Nothing will get done if you will shout. Keep your tough emotions to yourself and let it out when you’re all alone. Crying could help. But finish it up in just one night. It won’t be right for you to cry every night after that severe break up.

Why? There won’t be any tissues left in your house for other family members to use. Just kidding!

What hurts the most in a break up? Is it the separation? Is it knowing that he has grown tired of you? Is it because he is cheating on you? Is it because he doesn’t really love you from the start and just gave it a try because you look good? Or is it maybe because someone dictated him to do so?

But whatever may be the reason for a break up, there’s really no such thing as a clean break, even if some attempts for it to be that way. It will always hurt someone and I think no one can ever change that. And it will always cost you to shed a tear or two. No matter how much you swear not to cry over a boy. And you won’t help but to think of “why?” or things as such. You won’t help yourself from reminiscing all the fun times that both of you had. And sometimes, what hurts the most in some relationship is that the both of you used to be the best of friends. Just like they say, friends can be lovers. But sometimes, lovers can’t be friends.

Readers, have you ever wondered why some girls eat chocolates after breaking up? They may not know the reason but it is because the sweetness of the chocolate makes them forget the bitterness of breaking up.. While in the case of the boys… they drown themselves in alcohol because its bitterness makes them forget the sweetness of the girl… the best thing that they could just do in order to forget is study hard! It’s hard to study so surely you can take your mind off of him. And you will even have an improvement for the better.

In this life of ours, there are people in different situations and too many to mention all of them. So, I’ll just mention a few… like the boy loves this girl so much but he’s not sure if the girl loves him back even if she says she does… And the girl who loves this guy so much she’s willing to wait just for him to love her back, but sadly he love’s another girl.. and this guy who likes this girl but the girl doesn’t like him back, not because she likes another guy, but because she just doesn’t like him that much… and this girl who has such a huge crush on this guy but she’s not that sure if he also likes her back because he doesn’t say so but at times.. Boys can be so predictable… they always show girls that they like them.. And also at times, girls trip head over heels a guy. But they’re dumb enough not to realize if they’re already being conned. Don’t be oblivious, and never let you guard down. In the game we call love; boys and girls are at times, jerks. There are those two timers, three timers, and those loyal people that are at most times the ones being fooled.

Here’s the tip. If a guy dumps you, you shouldn’t cry over him. But I won’t deny that at times crying could help. But just do it for a night. And never ever repeat it again. Don’t be d**n depressed. Instead, move on no matter how much you love him. There’s nothing more you can do. Be tough. This world has got more people than you can count. And more boys than you can ever have a relationship with. Boys are not extinct specie for you to cry over one, as if you’re not going to meet another guy in your whole life, and you’ll live alone and die at an old age, with no one but yourself with. What is the true nature of God’s so called creation named boys? If they like you they’ll show it to you, if you fall for them that’s your fault. Because sometimes, when the time comes that they’ve grown tired of you, they’ll dump you like last year’s price. Always keep in mind that, before you fall, look beneath the face he shows, because sometimes, guys don’t like commitments. After you have fallen, they’ll leave you.

Don’t worry yourself too much. Sometimes there’s something better coming around the corner. He’s not the last guy on earth you could love. He’s just one of the few men you could ever love. And by the way, since he dumped you… He’ll be the last year’s price. Gotten old, and over used. That’s what you can tell all your friends. Do you believe in “never let go of someone you really love”? Just to share it with you, I don’t. Those who believe and fight for it even if it’s just simply wrong are complete and utter fools but if both of you love each other very much, and then you should do that and if not always let go. Because sometimes, giving up is the best option, especially when you’re out of reasons to stay.

Destiny, fate, and being meant to be are just one of the few words that girls think about when speaking about love. But have you ever met the right guy who you think was the one meant for you? There are things in life that you can’t hold on to forever, no matter how much you fight for it. Sometimes destiny isn’t always good. It becomes playful. When you meet someone, you learn to love; you thought that it was destiny that made your paths cross. But, what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that the playful destiny creates? Making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you, wasn’t really meant to stay. But it was only in stored by fate to make you feel loved. And leave you when you’ve already fallen. Never think of only yourselves. Never think of ME ME ME. If there will be a problem in your relationship, look at it from all sides. Don’t always blame the guy. Sometimes, you should look at it from his perspective. It’s not always their fault. If you’re already tired of it, maybe he is too. And things like that lead to break ups at times. If you’re a true lover, no matter how much it hurts, you should learn to let go just to see the person you really love, happy. And doing so and seeing so will even make you happy.

Sometimes love can make us blind. It could take away your logical thinking and be replaced with butterflies in your stomach. When that happens, we are to out of this world to think straight. And you’ll do whatever it takes just for the relationship to work out between the two of you. But never fall in love. Never fall. Be alert because one day you might be astounded of what has reality dawned on you for you might end up hurt for no one was around to catch you. Always be in touched with your mind. Never lose contact. Because when the time comes that you let your heart lead the way, and you got lost, and it can never lead you back home, your mind will help you through it all. It will help you realize how much you’ve done and that it is enough. That it’s finally the right time to move on. Because it could be very tiring to love someone that’s not for you.

If a guy makes you cry, you’re too soft. Sometimes, girls like us will learn from a past relationship. Some, who used to be so sweet, simple, and loyal, has now changed. They tend to be hard and playful. And whose fault is it? They’ll tell you, the guy who dumped me of course. Who else is to blame? But they’re dead wrong. The one to blame is themselves. They let themselves go with the flow of their complicated emotions. They were too carried away with what reality has been the turn of events. One thing you should remember. Don’t go after guys. Don’t run after them. Don’t force them to take you, and also don’t force to take you back. And don’t be too hard on yourself. Let those guys be. If they don’t like you anymore, then, be it. If they are already tired of you, never mind that. Don’t ever think of revenge. Karma doesn’t exist for no reason at all. Today’s world is evil enough for you to think more of bad things just to get even.

Each one of us is looking for the guy of our dreams. The one who won’t ever get tired of us and will always be patient. A guy who will love you forever and always, someone who will never leave you and will always be by your side no matter what troubles and problems that could come your way. That guy may or may not exist. Don’t expect too much. Just expect of what is enough. Don’t get your hopes way up high for it may be unfulfilled. But always remember that have faith and God always knows what’s best for us. Try to find what makes you happy. And soon, you will end up with someone who saw in you completeness without ever wanting anything, except being a part of you. One thing to be remembered is that never be too eager. Wait for the right time. And simply savor the moment while it lasts. If it’s over, then it’s over. Don’t ever change for the guy. Let them like you for who you really are.

You can change for the better, but make it for you, and not for him. Never forget your limitations and never let it be too much. Always differ good from the bad, and angelic from devilish. Don’t show the world a façade of someone different from the inside. In this game that we call love, always hark back to that boys will always be boys, and they’re never really different from each other. They’re just boys being boys.

Not once be playful, be open-minded and clever, be strong, and never forget to be YOU.

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