Got this from myg... Falling in love with the wrong pers, literary work
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09-06-05
The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to make her fall in love when he never intended to catch her fall in the first place. Of course this works both ways.
They say when people fall in love…they usually do a lot of stupid things. And it’s true. People do crazy things when they’re in love --- a lot of crazy things. They go blind…They become hearing-impaired – they don’t listen. They become unintelligent – they interchange the wrong from the right or they usually make right what’s wrong…and so forth, and so forth. C’mon, you know what I’m talking about. At one point in our lives we have become this person ---illogical, absent-minded & just plain lovestruck. Well there’s nothing wrong to it really. It’s just that, in the end, when realization strikes back it only hurts even more.
I have read this from somewhere:
"Never fall in love with somebody who has hang-ups, somebody who never had the chance and probably will never have the chance of being with somebody they have been loving for the most part of their life...you'll never be good enough, you'll never be funny enough, you're efforts won't be enough, you'll never be lovable enough for him/her to forget about her/him...you would have to compete with somebody he/she puts on a pedestal, you would have to always put on the best show whenever he/she is around, you would have to look like a fool waiting for him/her to tell you that he/she is finally over with her/him and that he/she is now ready to spend the present and start the future with you..."
Isn’t it sad that sometimes you just fall for the wrong person? Even though you thought he/she is so right for you? You make yourself believe that you’ll always have the chance to make things work out. You condition yourself to accept everything about him/her. You don’t and won’t care about the past or anything that happened before that. What highly matters now is the present and perhaps… the future. And do you know why people do these “crazy” things? It’s because they feel happy. Nothing more, nothing less.
For one thing, how would you ever know if that person you're falling in love with is indeed wrong or right for you?Nobody’s perfect. That’s why it has always been risky. You take chances. You make a choice that in time you may or may not regret afterwards.
I always say this quote: “People do things because they WANT to. Not because they NEEDED to.” It’s a choice. And they have chosen to do those things. They chose to do it despite the risks involved. They chose to do it less the expectations. They chose to do it even without the investment returns. It’s a gamble. You almost bet everything because of the fact that for once in your life you’ve felt you’re special, you’ve felt that you’re happy & content and that everything can be damned but you’ll still have that sheepish smile plastered on your face.
I have been in these situations a lot of times. Too many to keep track off. I should have been immune to the symptoms but then again my anti-virus was outdated already hence the infection. Now I’m on rehab. Again. It seems that no matter what I do, no matter how thorough the diagnosis is, I keep on exhibiting chronic attributes of the disease. I seem hopeless. But then again, it’s probably healthy to be sick once in a while. At least I know I’m still human. At least I know that I still have emotions and can identify them accurately. And even though I keep on manifesting these persistent symptoms for a period of time, I can say that I have learned to recuperate any loss and repair any damages done. Soon, I would be ready once again to get ill.
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All I can say is this: Even though you get your head hit, your knees bruised and your heart stabbed too many times, don’t give up. Don’t give up on love, on yourself and that “unfound” someone. Fate knows what she’s doing. She’s just trying to make us better, stronger and tougher to face and endure more hurt and pain. And no matter how hurtful or painful our love experiences seem to be, what’s more important is that you felt happy. For me that would be enough.
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