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[tissot]

HI HONEYBABES... ANG CUTE NAMAN NG CRUSH MO... IM, BACK AFTER A LONG TIME.

WERE STILL TOGETHER, AND PLANNING TO GET MARRIED STILL, MOST PROBABLY DITO SA DUBAI SA PHIL CONSULATE, PERO WE ARE STILL PLANNING TO GET MARRIED IN BORACAY BEACH WEDDING.

EVERYBODY IS ALL AWARE NA, HIS FAMILY MY FAMILY OF OUR PLAN. SO MY RELATIONSHIP NOW IS VERY QUIET HOPEFULLY, PERO STILL THE GIRL JUST STOP GIVING A RING WITH MY BF RIGHT NOW SIGURO LAST 4 MONTHS LNG, SHE'S STILL LONGING WITH HIS EX AND THE FATHER OF HIS CHILD.

AKO NA TULOY NGAUN ANG NA BABAGABAG, KUNG DAPAT NGA BA NAMIN ICONTINUE ANG RELATIONSHIP NA ITO, EVENTHOUGH MAY NATAPAKAN KAMI.

ACTUALLY JUST FOR A FACT YUNG BF KO NEVER SIYA NAG FAIL SA RESPONSIBILITY NIYA SA BATA INTERMS OF FINANCIAL KAHIT NGA UNG GIRL PANG NANGHIHIRAM NG MONEY PINAPAHIRAM NIYA PA RIN.

I KEEP ON INSISTING MY BF RIGHT NOW NA, KUNG MAY FEELINGS PA SIYA GO FOR IT, NA NOT TO THINK OF ME KASI I CAN MANAGE.

TILL NOW GANUN PARIN AKO, EVERY KILOS NIYA, EVERY SINGLE THING NA GAWIN NIYA NA ALAM KUNG MAY KONEKSIYON OR NAKAKAPAGPAALA ABOUT SA RELATIONSHIP NIYA INT HE PAST WITH THE GIRL, I ALWAYS TEASES HIM NA NAG REREMINISCE SIYA, I EVEN ACCUSED HIM NA MAY COMMUNICATION PARIN SILA.. AT FIRST SA MGA PANGAASAR AT PAGHIHINALA KO NA UN SA KANYA OFCOURSE, PINALALABAN NIYA SARILI NIYA NA SERIOUS NA SIYA SA RELATIONSHIP NAMIN WALA SIYANG GINAGAWA NA MAKAKASIRA... NGAUN HINAHAYAAN NIYA NALANG ME NA I ACCUSED SIYA, BAHALA DAW AKO SA MGA IISIPIN KO... AKO NALANG DAW ANG HINDI PA NAG KCLOSE DOOR.

QUESTION IS..... SHOULD I CLOSE THIS ISSUE??? KNOWING THAT ... ANLAKAS NG VIBES KO NA TALAGANG HEAD OVER HEELS PARIN ANG GIRL SA EX-BF NIYA? SHOULD i?

[emmai]

loving is trusting.. when you can't fully trust the person you love then the relationship won't work.. trust is one of the basic foundations to make a relationship work..

you have to trust your bf and remove your anxieties or agam-agam for you guys to last. you cannot remove the fact that they have a baby and this would really entail communication between him and his ex. he has responsibility and when you embraced him in your life then you have also embraced this fact about him.

instead of fighting around the issue why don't you guys just move forward? i think it's all a matter of acceptance and trust.. as you said you love him.. so if you do, then you love the whole of him.. and the whole of him includes his past.. don't make his past be a ghost to you.. make it serve as your motivation to make the relationship work and last..

just a bit of advice sis

[tissot]

thanx emmai... it really helps, seeing other point of views and advices.
thanx gurl.... tc

[sweety_gurl10]

hello....

hows your life going on? Well it's not right na papiliin mo ung guy beween you and his kid... as they say a girl can be replaced by someoneelse but not the kid... Dun lang sa pagpili nya sayo dapat maging happy kana because he chooses you and not the moher of his kid... It only proves that he really loves you... Ang pagpapapili mo between you and his kid is a great pressure to him... You must understand his situation......

[tissot]

hi sweety gurl.. thanks for asking.. sori sa sobrang tagal ko bago ako naka log ulit dito sa pf at my past few months was so busy..

well.. pinili niya ako, that time kasi he has to choose din talga kung ako or ung anak niya duon.. u know why dahil ung X niya.. pinagffront ung bata sa asawa ko ngaun.. sympre as a father hindi matitiis un diba.. especially bantaan siya na hindi na niya makikita ang anak niya ever...

so naninimbang ung husband ko dati,

PERO the GOOD NEWS IS... were married na ngaun... and looking forward for an angel na maccomplete ang family namin.

so far sa ngaun.. were still having a problem with the firl, because bitter parin siya after 1 year and half... ngaun she demanding for a higher amount of sustento sa bata... i mean higher amount .. hindi afford ng asawa ko.. because mid level person lng kami na nagttrabaho...

kc ung girl umaasa lng talaga sa padala.... at alam ko hindi nagttrabaho ngaun...

un un ang update... ngaun were living in a stress free situation but this problem ulit.. pero hindi nanamin iniininda...

imaginin mo panay ang mura saamin.. sinusumpa kami, pati kaluluwa ng anak niya dinamay niya... and everything.. sobrang depress... hindi nalang namin pinapatulan para manahimik din... one thing na sure kami.. na hindi namin siya pagbibigyan sa request niya because that is too much for us.. ano siya nabuntisan ng isa sa mga ayala boys... duh... isang ahamak na empleyado lng ang nakabuntis sa kanya...

at sympre she need to work din para sa anak niya right?

[SERU]

i agree with that. hindi dahil sa bitter siya, naiinggit lang siguro kase siya ayun malungkot samantalang kayo ng husband mo masaya. so she's asking for mataas na sustento, wag na pagbigyan yung tama lang para sa bata at hindi para sa kanya.

[dudungdance]

dun sa isang post mo amy asawa ka na, anu ba tlga? nyahaha
well nasasayo naman tlga yan.!